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ADHD and Neurodiversity in counselling

I have worked with many people with ADHD and autism. Neurodiversity describes the differences in the way that people's brains work...

Internal Family Systems Therapy
Internal Family Systems Therapy
Internal Family Systems Therapy

Internal Family Systems Therapy

Internal Family Systems Therapy, IFS is a transformative tool that conceives every human being as a system of protective and wounded inner parts lead by a core...

Sand Tray
Sand Tray
Sand Tray

Using sand tray in the therapy room

Sand tray therapy uses sand and a variety of objects such as shells stones and small figures and toys to create stories that represent a person’s inner world...

Thinking about counselling
Thinking about counselling
Thinking about counselling

Is counselling for you? Small steps for lifting the mood.

We can find ourselves in a dip and not sure why. Post-holiday blues, the menopause, children leaving home, family worries, ageing parents...

Walking talking therapy
Walking talking therapy
Walking talking therapy

Walking talking therapy

When we move and shift our environment, we may find that we can think differently about aspects of our lives that may have before seemed unchangeable...

Window of tolerance
Window of tolerance
Window of tolerance

Window of tolerance

When we are pushed beyond the edges of the window of tolerance we experience hyper or hypo arousal. Understanding this can be life changing...

Counselling supervision
Counselling supervision
Counselling supervision

On Supervision – a blog for Practitioners

Ideally we come to Supervision with trust and an openness that we can speak candidly about challenges in client work openly...

Bereavement
Bereavement
Bereavement

On bereavement

Bereavement counselling is a space to honour the person who has died and the feelings around that loss be it anger or sorrow...

Working creatively
Working creatively
Working creatively

Working together online

One good outcome of the pandemic has been establishing the effectiveness of online counselling. This enables us to meet and work together wherever you are via zoom...

Humanistic counselling
Humanistic counselling
Humanistic counselling

The Humanistic Approach to Counselling and Attraction to Hurt

Sometimes, the things we do to protect ourselves turn on us and hurt us. Through counselling we can explore patterns...

Contribution from hurt
Contribution from hurt
Contribution from hurt

Contribution from Hurt and Attraction to Hurt in the Counselling process

How Contribution from Hurt is a powerful way of coming through our issues with the help of counselling...

Children and the pendulum
Children and the pendulum
Children and the pendulum

Children and The Pendulum

If you come to counselling the whole family can benefit. I am systemically trained and we often talk about family dynamics and relationships...

Co-dependency
Co-dependency
Co-dependency

Codependency and Referrals in the Counselling Process

When another person’s behaviour has taken over, counselling can identify ways to regroup and live your own life...

Feelings of accomplishment
Feelings of accomplishment
Feelings of accomplishment

Feelings of Accomplishment and Purpose in client work

Purpose is powerful and the area in which we can best develop. It can determine the flow of our Feelings of Accomplishment...

Systemic Family Therapy
Systemic Family Therapy
Systemic Family Therapy

Restructuring in Systemic Family Therapy

Through gestalt interventions such as two chair work, this blog gives a glimpse of systemic family therapy which can inform-one to-one work...

The Pendulum
The Pendulum
The Pendulum

The Pendulum

Through counselling, an in-depth understanding of the pendulum can make a profound difference to some peoples lives...

Gestalt therapy
Gestalt therapy
Gestalt therapy

Gestalt therapy – a brief introduction

Through Gestalt counselling you can learn that being aware of their internal self is key to understanding why you react and behave in certain ways...

Therapeutic True Rest
Therapeutic True Rest
Therapeutic True Rest

Therapeutic True Rest

Come to counselling and explore your relationship with true rest and how you can build it into your life...

Addiction and The Pendulum
Addiction and The Pendulum
Addiction and The Pendulum

Addiction and The Pendulum in the Counselling Process

Addiction can act as a barrier between a person and their pain. Understanding the pendulum model through counselling has the potential to be life-changing...

Boundaries and Relationships
Boundaries and Relationships
Boundaries and Relationships

Boundaries and Relationships in working towards change

Healthy boundaries in relationships do not come naturally to some people. Through counselling it is possible to explore what reasonable boundaries look like...